What does a couple want? A single male who will show up to meet a couple , with flowers , a bottle of wine , someone who is polite.May I add that if you go there and only try to please the women with no expectations , and make the man in the couple feel relaxed , I think you would get more offers. Watch what you say to the women , make sure your sexual comments stick to just sex and nothing intimate or in a very personal manner.

Only talk and discuss things infront of the male. Always be polite and back off , if the male uses the bathroom or goes to the kitchen or bar to get a drink , offer to buy the round or make the lengthtails. Do not give the male in the couple any reason to feel threatened. When contacting a couple take your time and tell alot about yourself and dont tell the couple what your going to do with them.

When it comes time to meet and if and when it gets sexual , put on a condom without asking. Make conversation with the male and dont be fake. Also , when you show up , explain you are there not expecting anything to happen , and make friends. How does a male contact a couple who has listed no single males? You frankly dont. If you make your profile very different from the other male profiles , and put up classy pictures and list that if a women wants to see your package you will email them pictures , it will work better. Also make sure you do not brag about what you have or dont.

As a single male you have to be better and more respectful , if you want to be contacted by couples.

Last , but least , I would highly suggest , that if your being in the lifestyle is important , that your go out of your way to meet just one couple and stick with just them for a while and build yourself a reputation with that couple as being monogomus with just them , dont see single girls or play on the side with anyone but them. This will give you a trustworthy realationship and a good reputation and word will get around.

Once you get more offers , stick with couples and if you meet a nice single girl , do not sleep with her unless you go steady and only swing as partners together.

This will help you as single males.